The Coules Family

The Coules Family

Friday, May 11, 2012

Celebrate Good Times ... Come on!



I must admit that most of life is lived in the mundane - in the "day in and day out" tasks that just need to be done.  Sometimes it seems as if you just tend to put your head down and press forward to accomplish what the Lord has put before you.  But then, there are times in life when you have the opportunity to stop, to lift up your head, and to just shout with joy at what the Lord has helped you to accomplish.  For us, graduation from university is one of those times.   

Our son, JD, just graduated from university this past weekend and we had the privilege to attend the ceremonies.  One could feel all the excitement in the air, as well as, all the anxiety that goes with desiring to finish the day without tripping headlong in your graduation gown!  You could see the pride on the parent’s faces as they waited in line for over an hour outside in the drizzle just to be able to get the best seats in the house.  Then the final moment came when the procession of graduates filed in, ready to receive that thin piece of paper that they had been sacrificing so much for these past years.  I am sure that all those sleepless nights, filled with those caffeine-loaded drinks and project-laden desks, were not even on their minds that day.  You see, I think, that the struggle to graduate is a lot like delivering a child.  The pain can be extremely intense for a while, but after that precious one is in your hands, you really find it hard to remember the pain.  Well… either you choose not to remember OR over time you are eventually able to laugh over your “war stories.”  And I have a feeling that most of those graduates that day had plenty of “war stories” to cling to in which they will be able to recite again and again to their children one day. 

Celebrating … it sure feels good after the long haul of working toward one goal.  But in reality, if there had been no struggle to attain the goal, then there would be no reason to truly celebrate! ...  I think I will need to remember this point when I too, need to sometimes struggle through some harder days. 

But for now, our family … we are just pretty much “jumping up and down in our field” today celebrating JD’s accomplishment of graduating and graduating with honors.  Way to go, son!